Ngl, I love my 30s — the self-assurance, knowing who I am, and yes, adult money. But this decade hits different. It’s less about exploration and more about intention: does what I’m building actually serve the life I want? With aging parents, thoughts of marriage, kids, and navigating a world shaped by AI… there’s a lot to hold.
But good friendships? Non-negotiable.
The right people make you laugh, help you see the best in yourself, and just get you. Here’s what’s worked for me:
1. Be fully present. When I’m with my people, I’m curious and tuned in. Depth > time spent.
2. Stay connected across distance. Memes, articles, voice notes — it’s how my abroad friends and I stay in each other’s worlds. 🤣💌
3. Blend your life, don’t schedule it. Costco run? Bring a friend. Chores at home? Invite someone for coffee. Folding people into your everyday life is intimate in the best way.
4. The right people will root for you. When life gets busy, they won’t resent you; they’ll cheer you on from the sidelines.
