What women should look for while dating intentionally

3 important things women should look for in dating 

  1. Proactivity

There’s a difference between

“Babe there’s no more ketchup left.”

Vs 

“Babe, there’s no more ketchup left. I’m going to go to the grocery store at 5 pm — want anything?”

I love a proactive partner who gets things done and is thoughtful when thinking 2-3 steps ahead. 

2. Consistency

That you show up. 

That you do what you say you’re going to do.

That is how you come off reliable and consistent, and that is how trust is built.

3. Stability 

That this person has a stable job or income (or working towards it) so he can provide for the family in the case you want one, that you’re not a scrub hanging out the passenger ride of his best friend’s ride.

That this guy is not at the casino 24/7, popping bottles, or spending money on things you can’t afford.

That, my friends, is what you should be looking for.

Not the 6 feet tall, emotionally unavailable fucktard that can’t even text you back. 

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